Don’t Tell Me You’re Passionate About Your Work
I’ve come to believe there is nothing so insincere as when people say they’re “paaa-shu-net” about their business. I watch the way the mouth forms the word and it makes me regret I had lunch. I am Not. Joking.
But a lot of business owners seem to feel the need to express they’re “people” with “real feelings,” and so head for the deep end of the emotions pool without a life jacket, to drown in passion. The worst part? Most of the time customers hear about a business’s “zeal for finance” before they see any evidence of it. And when they play along, they get nothing but a few snore-inducing conference calls–billed hourly–and an invoice.
Okay, so passion is good for business. It’s the bright, consuming heat that keeps us from sleeping until we’ve chosen exactly the right floor tiles, keeps us from eating until we’ve calculated the revenue necessary to pay for a yacht, and keeps us from noticing just about anything else. It gives us muscle tics when we take more than a few steps away from the office. It makes our tongues cramp from attempting to keep our mouths shut about it for an hour at a stretch. It’s what powers many a start-up. But it doesn’t last. When exhaustion sets in, those sleepless nights and lunchless days had better pan out, or the business won’t. And of course, we’re in search of a new adjective.
Here’s the thing: you don’t need to be passionate about your business–or pretend to be–in order for it to be among the best of its kind. Operate your business at the highest quality standards in all areas with ice-water in your veins and you’ll find it pads your pockets nicely. No fire in the belly required. There’s no shame in that, although “I’m content to just make money” doesn’t roll of the tongue as nicely.
If you truly are passionate about what you do… and it’s real estate… I’d like to make an appointment to meet you in your padded cell. But seriously, if you want your customers to know just how deeply you’ve invested not only time and money but heart and soul into your business, show them. Use emotional language in the right places (your “About” page is one). Incorporate graphics that aren’t stock. Leave an impression with them at meetings that leaves no doubt about your ability or your energy. You don’t have to be wild-eyed and intense. You don’t have to give the Complete Sob Story of Your Business. It’s a good idea to have a long track record of activities and events that showcase your love for the work without your having to come right out and say it. People will pick up on it.
If you’re totally unconvinced by everything above, let me tell you the best way to make the word passion glow: have it come from someone else. A testimonial comes from someone who’s experienced your professional energy firsthand, and it’s that experience your customers trust. So it’s best to save your breath.
Are you passionate about your work? Do you think it’s necessary to characterize yourself that way? How?
Photo Credit: Mish Sukharev, courtesy of Flickr; CC 2.0.
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GREAT post, Shakirah! Such good points! It's so true: the only way to prove you're passionate about your career is to prove it through action (and words, if you're bloggers like us). Talking about it only takes away time from being able to prove it.
krissybrady Time is the key word, Krissy, exactly. Give us a little time to watch you at work, and give yourself a little time to make it plain. People WILL see it, and won't need any proclamations. Good to have you over as always, lady.
ShakirahDawud krissybrady I love visiting! :) I finally have my office organized since the move and look forward to keeping in touch like we used to. Organization is SO important and I'm so happy to have it back! My head isn't swelling with clutter now, *snorts.
Lotsa Fire and (Dare I Say It) Passion in This Post, Shakirah! But a Great Point About Showing That Devotion Instead of Talking About It :)
Narciso Tovar
Big Noise Communications
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Narciso17 This is rather shouty, isn't it? I'll try to be a bit more demure next time I rant! Just hoping to get the point across as clearly as possible. I do believe this is your first comment here, Narciso; thank YOU.
ShakirahDawud Narciso17 Personally I like the "shouty" Shakirah.
I've always said the surest sign that a person is stupid is when they have to keep assuring others, I'm not stupid, y'know. And I think you just helped me realize why so many online businesses give me the heebie-jeebies.
That recurring, insistent need to declare how much we care about what we do reeks of Hamlet's, "me thinks the lady doth protest too much." Thank you for reminding us of the RIGHT way to let our emotional engagement shine through.
corpwritingpro Lol, Michelle, I know just which heebie-jeebies you're talking about. Great point about making unsolicited and unnecessary noise. I just wrote a post about bragging among professionals, and finding a balance is key. So glad to have you over!
ShakirahDawud
I saw that post Shakirah, and commented on LinkedIn I believe. It's nice to connect along a broader spectrum and see how much you truly have to offer. I'm looking forward to hearing more from and about you.
corpwritingpro Yes, I replied there, thank you! And likewise, Michelle--your content is extraordinary, and I haven't even had the chance to delve in the way I want to.
ShakirahDawud
Wow! coming from you, I am truly humbled. Thank you Shakirah.
Did someone just do you wrong? Now that was passionate, Girl Friend!
@Soulati | PR I was wondering when someone would say that, lol! I would have been cornier ("seems like the word passion put you in a passion!"). But no, this one's just been bubbling around inside somewhere for a while.
"You don’t have to give the Complete Sob Story of Your Business." SHAKIRAH! I love this. This is a fantastic post and I hope some of the "I'm passionate about my job" people think about what they're saying.
jennwhinnem It's been bubbling around inside me for a while now, Jenn--had to let that one out! So glad you laughed, because I wanted it to be funny (yay! I wasn't too sarcastic for once!). I hope it gets at least some folks to find a better way to describe themselves, because there are waaay too many out there who just end up sounding soulless and empty when they use the word "passion." It's almost sad, but not quite, lol.
Hi Shakirah.
This reminds me of something I heard on a sit com tonight - if you want to be cool, don't TELL people you're cool. Stop trying to prove it - BE it. When I was in High Shool one of my teachers had posters on his wall. I've always remembered one - it said, "When you try to make an impression, that is just the impression you make."
Be it, Do it and nevermind who's watching. Give it your all.
It's more fun that way! And how ARE you going to be successful if you're not having fun?
Thanks for this! You got me thinking!
Lori
Lori Glad to keep you thinking, Lori--that means more of the good stuff on your end. "Be it, Do it and nevermind who's watching. Give it your all." Sums up my post nicely, thank you!
'let me tell you the best way to make the word passion glow: have it come from someone else. A testimonial comes from someone who’s experienced your professional energy firsthand, and it’s that experience your customers trust. So it’s best to save your breath'. This is so true; perception is reality at times and a testimonial coming from someone else is much more effective than your own blah, blah, blah. Let your actions speak louder than your words.
There does seem to be a lot of 'passion' these days, especially in the social media world, huh?
Good post ma'am, hope your day has been well.
bdorman264 You said it, Bill. People go after social media as if it's totally black and white, one side or another, and passion is what's driving most of it, if you ask me. We'll settle down eventually...
I adore this post, it rings so true with me. Wish I could get everyone to read it.
tropigal I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way, Pamela--and thanks for the RT; happy to have you over!
Yes! Show, don't tell.
KOKEdit Amazing how that rule seems to work everywhere, not just in manuscripts.






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